The Big List of Resources for Family of Trans* People
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This list isn’t as big as it should be, because unfortunately there isn’t a lot of help out there for parents, siblings, children and other family members of trans* people. However this list is always growing and will be updated whenever new information is found/created. Family members of Trans* people go through a different type of transition when their child begins to transition, however it is still a transition and not an easy one. Hopefully these resources will help.
Websites
COLAGE: People with Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer Parent - http://www.colage.org/
TransActive - http://www.transactiveonline.org/index.php
Kids Health: Transgender People - http://kidshealth.org/parent/positive/talk/transgender.html
TransParentcy - http://www.transparentcy.org/
TransParent Canada - http://transparentcanada.ca/?file=kop1.php
PFLAG TNET - http://community.pflag.org/page.aspx?pid=380
Trans Kids Purple Rainbow Foundation - http://www.transkidspurplerainbow.org/
Transfamily - http://www.transfamily.org/
Family Acceptance Project - http://familyproject.sfsu.edu/
Books
The Transgender Child: A Handbook for Families and Professionals - Stephanie A. Brill
Gender Born, Gender Made: Gender Creative Children and Their Families - Diane Ehrensaft
My Princess Boy - Cheryl Kilodavis
Our Trans Children - PFLAG TNET PDF copy can be found here: http://www.pflagdetroit.org/PDF/OurTrans..._5thedition.pdf
Mom, I Need to be a Girl - Just Evelyn
Helping Your Transgender Teen: A Guide for Parents - Irwin Krieger
My Child is Transgender: Ten Tips for Parents of Adult Trans Children - Matt Kailey
Transitions of the Heart: Stories of Love, Struggle, and Acceptance by Mothers of Transgender and Gender Variant Children - Rachel Pepper
Transgender 101: A Simple Guide to a Complex Issue - Nicholas M Teich
Transgender Explained for Those Who are Not - Joanna Herman
Groups
Look into local groups such as PFLAG Transgender Network and other local Queer groups/organizations to find out if there is a support group for family members of transgender people.